Featured News Why do chosen ones find themselves alone or single (here’s why) adminJuly 16, 20240189 views Understanding the Journey of Isolation It’s happening for you, not to you. You have yourself and then you have the shadow self. The shadow self is why do chosen ones find themselves alone? If you are a chosen one, you may have noticed that you have been isolated. And it’s not always necessarily by choice where it’s a matter of you deciding to like remove people from your life. Sometimes it’s a thing of people removing themselves out of your life, but it happens simultaneously, as if it’s multiple people all at once, or around the same time where everybody just leaves your life, and then you just have this feeling of isolation. For people who have never experienced that before or for people who are just now getting to this point within the journey, what’s happening is you are being prepared. You are being prepared for the life that is already yours. You’re being prepared for the new people that are already going to be coming into your life. You are being prepared for it, love included. The Process of Transformation You are transforming into the person that you’ve always known yourself to be, you are becoming that person because you already are that person. This is a part of the process. If you wanna call it the earlier stages, if that makes more sense, you can call it that. But what’s happening right now is you are being prepared for it. Just think to yourself, whenever things are being created, right, whenever beautiful things are being made, it takes time. You can look at a tree and think about that. You have to plant the seed, certain way. It’s like, that’s basically what’s happening to you. You’re being watered at this point right now. And that’s also why I say, like, everything’s more connected than what you think. When you start to realize that, certain things become more comfortable to deal with, and you won’t be as scared because like, this process can be scary and this process can be hard, but the easy things aren’t usually the things that, you know, transform into the most beautiful things. Challenges and Growth Like, someone asked me the other day, why does it seem like everything is so, I guess if you could say, maybe difficult or slightly challenging? And I just gave this example. The tree, for example, or, like, growing plants, for example. Or if you see somebody creating a certain type of art piece, even drawing portraits of people’s faces, even human beings, like, when you think about how complex we are, you can even think about something more basic like the store. Think about how long it probably takes those people to straighten up each of those items so that they look and are presented a certain way, but how easy it would be to just come through and knock it all down. You know? It’d be so easy to chop this tree down. You know what I mean? But to create that, it takes time, and it’s like that’s for everything. You know? The Importance of Protecting Your Energy Chosen ones are being prepared at this time, and you know exactly who you are because you’re dealing with this right now. And I’m here to tell you that it’s not anything to it is going to be challenging in some ways, and it might even be scary to some people. But what you should also always have in mind is that on the other side of challenges, there’s things that will be easier. Your life will be easier. The things that you want are on the other side of that. And that’s also why you’re being isolated because people are drawn to you. People can sense when someone is more focused or when things are actually changing and certain qualities about you have changed for the better. You know? And again, people are attracted to that. People are drawn to that. People are drawn to your energy. And that’s why it’s very important to protect that energy, and you being isolated is one way to protect that. You know? Allowing Natural Separation People leaving your life all of a sudden, whatever way, if it’s them personally removing themselves, if it’s you making the decision to remove them, or naturally just in the world, like, something happened and they are removed from your life, first of all, allow that because it’s supposed to happen that way. It’s all to protect you and the progress you’ve made and to protect your energy as well. That’s how you have to look at everything. You know? It’s happening for you, not to you. You are being prepared at this moment in time. Healing and Self-Sufficiency Another reason you are protecting your energy on your own as well, where you continue those habits as well, where you remove someone. When you’re removing people that do not belong in your life, and not necessarily even because these are bad people, but because you no longer align with these people, you’re not on the same frequency anymore. Your energy overall, everything about you has elevated, and it is being transformed, and that’s what’s going on. And so it is important that you make sure to protect yourself as well. Don’t allow this isolation period to seek out any and everyone. Chosen ones need to have that understanding that you are chosen for a reason, for greater things, and your life is transforming. Another reason you, as a chosen one, find yourself to be alone, this sort of ties into the first reason, but another reason is because you are still needing to heal. A lot of times, if, again, you are still feeling like if it’s out of a necessity type of feeling or you feel like you can’t live without people, you having no one in your life or no one in your life right now is so that you understand that you don’t need anyone outside of yourself. The Role of the Shadow Self This is not to say that us as human beings don’t require connections with other human beings. I always say this in my videos because it’s true. That’s literally one of the main purposes of us being here is to connect with each other. So that’s going to happen regardless. But you have to be at a place where it’s not out of a necessity. Again, just think about, like, a baby or a child. I’m not gonna go too much into that example, but we should be at a very whole and sustaining place before that. So maybe there’s some type of healing that you still need. Maybe there’s certain childhood traumas that you still need to address. Maybe way in the back of your mind, there’s certain things that maybe you have not brought to the surface yet. Also, another reason could be your shadow. There’s some people that don’t know, but human beings are not all positivity and good energy and all of that. Certain things are a choice, by the way, but human beings are positive and negative. You have yourself, and then you have the shadow self. The shadow self is the you that you basically hide away from the world. It’s the you that you might even be trying to hide away from yourself. That’s the part of you that you deny and you choose not to acknowledge and you choose to act as if it does not exist. It’s the parts of yourself that either you are ashamed of, that you’re trying to basically, you have a mindset where you think if you hide it away, and if you stuff it down deep within the depths of you, that it doesn’t exist. And a lot of times, that is literally what people are ashamed of. Building a Bond with Yourself It’s like, just think of a box where they put all the negative and bad things that they don’t want people to know about them. That’s basically what it is. You have it in this void, and then you have it inside of you, but you put it deep down and, like, just way deep down to where even yourself, you might not be consciously aware of that. And a lot of times, sometimes with this isolation, that could be the period people at your job, or display to anyone. It’s mainly for yourself, for you to acknowledge yourself, because all of this really, it’s about the connection you make with yourself. You build that bond with yourself, everything else starts to come within, you know, or starts to come to you. It’s like you build that within. Chosen ones have that understanding about it’s literally about the relationship with yourself. And you’ve already experienced that. That’s why people are so drawn to you. That is literally why you’re so magnetic. Because you have such a strong bond with yourself. And people can feel that energy radiating from your body. And that literally pulls them towards you and draws them towards you. And make sure that you protect yourself. It’s such an important thing. Divine Relationships Another reason chosen ones find themselves alone. The relationship that a chosen one, the type of relationship that is for a chosen one is one that is going to take time. It’s one with depth. It’s one with substance. It’s very genuine and it’s very deep. And the more that you connect with yourself and you, you already know as a chosen one, that relationship you have with yourself, the relationship that you’re gonna have with another person that’s already coming into your life is going to be that times infinity because this person also is at that point with themselves where they have this deep relationship with themselves. And so, two people who have deep relationships with themselves and they’re both whole, they come together and that’s divine. And as a chosen one, you already know this. And so there’s not always a specific time for a divine relationship in the sense of, oh, we have to be in a talking stage for this amount of time. I feel that the more that you are on this journey as a chosen one, that you’ll realize that it’s all about you. It’s all about the relationship with yourself. And whenever you build that up to a certain point and you do attract another person that is also that level of loving towards themselves, you’ll realize that there’s a lot of complications that’s not going to occur with that. Conclusion That’s not to say not to still have boundaries, not to still have requirements and standards. Those are all things that are a part of certain things where it’s, like, trending where you see certain celebrities do certain things or certain influencers or certain viral videos, whatever, where they say that you need all these different types of things. And it turns out it’s actually way different than that, and it’s so much more than that. But if you resonated with anything I spoke about, consider liking, subscribing, and sharing so that this video reaches someone who may also need to hear this message. I again, I’m very excited to see everybody grow and to continue this path, and I’m very appreciative to put this message out there, especially for the people that needed to hear it. It’s really all a part of the journey. Like, just keep going and continue to build that relationship with yourself. Continue to seek out the answers that you want to know because they will come to you. Thank you, and bye.